Men go after what they want! If he really wanted to be with you, HE WOULD! A man will take a plane, train, bus, cab, boat, helicopter, or use his two bare feet to get to where you are, IF THAT'S WHERE HE WANTS TO BE! You won't have to call him over and over, text him a million times or show up at his house(please please please don't do that) to get his attention. Never.
You are WORTH pursuing! If he's not pursuing you, then you're not who he wants to be with. STOP making excuses for him!
A man loves the pursuit. Trust me. When he sees what he wants, he goes after it. If a man you adore is not pursuing you, he is not interested in you.
Men always pursue the women who catch their eye. If a man is interested, no distance will stand in the way. But if he is not interested, you can live next door, and that will be too far for him to go.
If he likes you, making time for you and making you feel heard, understood and appreciated will not be a sacrifice — it will come naturally. If he likes you enough, he will try his best to win you over. It's that simple.
So, do not go after a man that is unwilling to give you the time of day and put in the effort to talk to you. The moment that you start doubting that you are anything special is the moment you should walk away from him.
A man who is really interested into you will pursue you every single day. He will see your worth and treat you with respect. He will respect you on every level — your past, your values, your personality, your religious beliefs, your physical needs, your emotional needs, and your general outlook on life. He will respect you no matter what.
Although the woman is the one pursued, she also needs to put some effort into the hunt. What she has to do is much easier. A woman should also show her interest to the man, but she has to do this rather passively. She needs to be open and responsive to him when he tries to approach her. That is extremely important and necessary for keeping things moving along. Since if the lady doesn't show enough interest in the man he could stop pursuing her.
A man who wants to be with you will be constant. He won't act differently when he is and isn't around you. He won't send you mixed signals and make you beg for his attention.
Wait for the man who will chase you and make you feel like you are worth the pursuit. Any man who doesn't go the extra mile for you is a man who is not as serious as he says he is.
If he hasn't made a definite choice, he's not fully committed one way or the other.
As a strong woman, you shouldn't settle for indecisiveness from any man when it comes to your heart and your future...there's too much at stake.
If he won't pursue you and can't commit, that's okay... Just let him be uncommitted to someone else and not you.